With all of our insecurities and attachements does it really suprize us that war, rape, and racism have reigned for so long? Only through the "wisdom of tears", a belief in and respect for God, and compassion and love for life can we then begin to walk down a path free from the pain that our passions and ego create.
I often hear that "it is human nature to be that way," and "war and fighting are just part of life." And yes, we are human, and yes, war and fighting have led our conflict resolution methods up to this point in human history, but none of these things are what differentiate us as human.
Our ability to be empathetic, compassionate, and patient in each action is what separates us from the other living creatures of the planet...not our ability to fight or wage war. Most every other creature reacts to the fight or flight emotions they feel and lacks the ability to reflect on their actions. Moreover, they cannot change their values in an effort to behave in a more life affirming way. We have this ability...
How does this relate to tears and wisdom?
In my first three months in Hawaii I have cried more than at any other time I can remember in my life...if I had kept these emotions in I do not believe I would have the ability to deal with the huge change in my life or start working effectively with United Causes. Through these tears I have been challenged to understand where these emotions have come from. I am coming face to face with attachment issues, values and beliefs about sex, and developing further the way i want to live my life and treat others.
Expressing this pain that has been cultivated through lifelong attachments and passions has opened the door to a more peaceful and balanced existence. The door is open, but path is lifelong...
In other words, tears evoke empathy and compassion in ourselves and others and open our hearts and minds to a more compassionate and wise existence.
This experience in my first three months in Hawaii is so important to my life goals. More than ever as each day passes it is crucial to try and stay mindfully in each moment, cry when I need, and self reflect about the emotions I am feeling and where they come from. Through this practice I wish to attain more clarity in my work with United Causes and to find more and more inner peace and security so I can support those around me and help them become independent in mind, body, and soul as we lovingly walk next to one another in this beautiful life.
